Saturday, October 1, 2011

Just like her I wanna be pretty

I copy this from Kpopsecret.


People always seem to bash her because of plastic surgery. But let me tell you a story. Let me take you back about 5 years ago when she featured in Bigbang’s We Belong Together. When the song was first released, many people praised her for very good vocals but when the music video came out, everyone bashed her because they said she’s ‘UGLY’ ‘FAT’ and ‘GD OPPA AND TOP OPPA WOULD NEVER LIKE HER’. After all the bashing, she was featured in Samsung Anycall CF with Lee Hyori alowing people to bash her more. Even my friends bashed her. I also bashed her- not because ‘SHE’s TOO UGLY TO BE NEXT TO HYORI’ but because she wasn’t the same girl I saw in We Belong Together. People still called her ugly though I think she’s very beautiful. They even went as far as that which made her close her cyworld account.

When 2ne1 debuted in 2009, I felt very, very, VERY guilty because people say she’s the ‘plastic queen’ without even knowing what really happened. She was judged, bullied and she lost her confidence. It destroyed her self-esteem. I wish people would just understand that judging someone without knowing them really hurts. I bet people who judge someone never experienced how hard and how painful it is to get bullied without even trying to know who they really are.

If I was heavily bullied like that, I would also get plastic surgery so I will ‘fit in’ and not get bashed.
Well, those ‘judgmental people’ are probably THAT perfect for bashing people who just wants to follow their dreams. They can’t stand that some people are higher than them. BUT GUESS WHAT. Whatever you say will mean NOTHING because we love BOM and she will FOREVER be BEAUTIFUL.

S.B my friends are 2ne1-antis
p.s I hope this will stop the hate on not only Park Bom, but also other idols who gets bashed for their looks.


WORDS. I can't imagine just how much she has to go through. Well let me take you to what happen years back then too.

Park Bom's mom was always against her dream to become a singer. Even when Bom got call from a very famous singer, she refused to let Bom become one and asked Bom if she is out of her mind. She went to Berklee College of Music secretly. She made up her mind to become a singer in Korea. It was a now or never chance for her. Shen then auditioned for YG but was rejected. She worked hard for a year and auditioned again, and again she was rejected and worked hard for a year again and rejected again. After 3 years of hard work, she got accepted in YG because YG thought her determination is inspiring. 

She trained for almost 4 years and what did she get? harsh criticism saying she sings like a breathless pig, fat, ugly, slut and plastic bitch. What makes me even more sad is that it's not just antis on the net who said stuffs like that, but so are the people around me. I'm not her but I feel ashamed and frustrated. Then imagine how Park Bom herself feels? 


When Ugly was released, antis strike again saying how much she is not in the place to sing the song. Guys, come on, that's the whole point of Teddy making the song. He wants to tell the world what girls want to but don't have the guts to. 

 I'm trying to sing but,  no one is listening. I'm not pretty, I'm not beautiful - Park Bom


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